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Panic Attacks

Saturday, 21 March 2015

Today will be a more personal topic, but I felt I wanted to share it with you as it may be useful to any of you who suffers with panic attacks or any of you who may know someone who gets them, hopefully this will give you a better understanding of them

What is a Panic Attack?

A panic attack is feeling a sense of fear you feeling like you are separated from the world around you.

Your body goes into something called: 'Fight and flight mode", this basically means you either fight the fear head on or you get yourself away from the stressor that is causing you your panic attacks.
You experience different things such as shaking, feeling sick, heart palpitations, shortness of breath, sweating and sometimes depersonalisation/derealisation. We experience these things during a panic attack because our body prepares itself for 'danger', we get a rush of adrenaline which causes our heart to beat faster and our muscles to tense up.
"Anxiety is a heavy rock...Yelling at it won't make it go away...But  sometimes, if you take the time to feel the texture and ridges of your anxiety...It feels just a little less heavier than it was before"

For me?...
A panic/ attack is something I can never escape from (at least thats what it feels like).
I get a sense of worry all the while.

What triggers a Panic Attack?

Although there is no specific cause or 'trigger' to anxiety, we still have stressors such as: Being scared of heights, seeing a spider, being in a crowded area. The body sees these stressors which sets the bodies off alarm system, these things we see as a threat is a unnecessary trigger even when there is no real danger. My specific triggers are being in small places, being alone, heights & doing things that are stepping outside of my comfort zone.

A panic attack can happen literally anywhere:
  • At home
  • On a journey somewhere
  • At your place of education or work
  • Walking down the street
  • Meeting up with friends
  • At a park

And a panic attack can be triggered by anything:
  • Exams
  • An interview
  • Going on a date
  • Being in Crowded places
  • Being in a small place
  • Being somewhere new
  • Arguments

I think some people out there don't have enough understanding of panic attacks, a few people tend to think "Oh you are just too sensitive". I am sensitive, I do cry easily and I can't control my stress as well as others might do. Each time I feel panicky, I try to tell myself 

"Calm yourself, there is nothing to panic about"

but sometimes it's like my brain is ignoring this message and gives me a panic attack anyway.
Because of this, I never used to feel comfortable being invited out in case I got a panic attack. Once you get past this stage of letting it control you, life becomes a lot easier, you just have to not let it dictate your life and do what you want to do. 


My first Panic Attack
I have been suffering with panic attacks for the past 2 years, this may not be a long time compared to most people out there who may have had them longer but I certainly understand what it is like feeling scared, needing advice and I know the feeling of not being in control.

Panic Attacks can be small or minor depending on the anxiety levels. I am not sure what first triggered my first panic attack but I remember my first one very clearly.
 My first time having a panic attack was a really frightening thing in my life. I started off feeling a little light headed and sick, I didn't realize my breathing was too quick and I was hyperventilating. It felt as though I couldn't breathe! I remember going outside quickly and I got on all fours wanting to breath normally, I didn't know what was happening, I thought something terrible was going to happen to me.

During this first time of me having a panic attack I found that support is so important.

Some may find it helpful to get talked to calmly whilst having one. However, for me, being asked questions such as "what did you have for dinner last night?" to try and distract me from the panic attack does NOT help. It's almost like "Hey how do you expect me to answer when I feel as though I'm being suffocated!" However, the method of trying to distract your mind does work for some.


If someone is having a panic attack, it is best to say:
"Everything will be okay, calm... Nothing bad will happen to you...what you are feeling is perfectly will be okay soon... calm."

We don't want to hear things like:
"Just try and stand up...stop being silly...don't be so sensitive your fine...just breath normally then you won't be light-headed".
It's like...SHEESH! We don't ask to feel this way We don't ask for it to happen!

When I got back inside to have some water I crawled up on the sofa, my mum had rang up for some support of the situation as this is her first experience with somebody having one, I'm not sure who she rang but there was a woman speaking to me over the phone on loud speaker,

"It's okay sweetie, this is just a panic attack you are experiencing, it won't last forever."

 Panic Attacks never last longer than 5-20 minutes although every minute you have it for feels like eternity, every second goes by slowly.

"Deep breaths, steady your breathing for me. I know it feels hard to do so but try for me it will help you, it's hard to control but breathe through your through your mouth slowly as though you are blowing out a candle"
Controlling your breathing can determine how quickly you recover from the panic attack, the faster you can get your breathing at a steady rate you feel a lot less panicky.


 I have been getting a lot better at controlling my panic attacks, the thing that I find most useful to me is doing some yoga, going to get fresh air alone and the use of reading relaxation scripts to myself. I can't stress enough how much these help me through times of anxiety.

Inner Health Studio provide some fantastic ones:

If any of you would like to share your stories with panic attacks below I'd love to hear but I also understand that these things can be quite personal. Giving advice would be really supportive for everyone else reading this blog post.

"Everything will be okay...calm"

Ciao friends


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